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What to bring for your child during a stay at the hospital

  • Favorite blanket or stuffed animal – Comfort is everything when a child is away from home. Their own blanket or plush can help them feel safe.
  • Cozy clothes & pajamas – Hospitals can get cold, so bring layers (sweaters, socks, slippers). Make sure it’s clothing they love and feel comfortable in.
  • Entertainment – iPad, Nintendo Switch, books, coloring books, or toys are great distractors. Be sure to download shows or games ahead of time.
  • Snacks – Bring their favorites—granola bars, crackers, gummies—since hospital food can be unpredictable.
  • Water bottle – Fun or personalized bottles help them stay hydrated.
  • Art/journal supplies – Great for passing time and letting them express their feelings.
  • Photos or small decorations – Familiar things from home to make the hospital room less sterile.
  • Headphones – For quiet time with movies, games, or audiobooks.
  • Activity books/puzzles – Word searches, sticker books, or Lego kits are fun distractions.
  • Comfort toiletries – Kid-friendly toothpaste, fun-scented lotion, or lip balm can make daily routines feel normal.

What to bring for yourself during a stay at the hospital

  • Comfortable clothes – Cozy sweatshirts, leggings, socks, and shoes you can slip on quickly.
  • Blanket & pillow – Hospital chairs are not comfy. Having your own makes overnight stays or long wait periods much easier.
  • Snacks – Easy grab-and-go foods so you’re not always relying on cafeteria food.
  • Water bottle & coffee tumbler – Staying hydrated (and caffeinated!) is key.
  • Chargers & electronics – Phone, tablet, headphones, and chargers—don’t forget long cords since outlets may be far.
  • Books, Kindle, or magazines – Something to read during long waiting periods.
  • Toiletries – Toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, lotion, face wipes—freshening up makes a huge difference.
  • Notebook/journal – Helpful for tracking questions, medications, or just writing out your thoughts.
  • Slippers or flip-flops – For walking around the room or hall comfortably.
  • Stress relief items – A small candle (if allowed), essential oil roller, or fidget toy for calming moments.

Gifts to get a parent whose child has cancer

  • Meal delivery gift card – Uber Eats, DoorDash, or local restaurants. Makes life easier when they don’t have time to cook.
  • Coffee shop gift card – A little daily pick-me-up they can look forward to.
  • Cozy blanket or hoodie – Something soft and comforting during long hospital days.
  • Self-care package – Lotion, chapstick, face masks, or aromatherapy—small comforts matter.
  • Journal & nice pen – For organizing thoughts, writing notes, or just venting feelings privately.
  • Reusable water bottle or coffee tumbler – Practical, and they’ll use it daily.
  • Noise-canceling headphones or earbuds – For phone calls, music, or zoning out during stressful waits.
  • Books or audiobooks subscription – Encourages little breaks of escape.
  • Gas or parking gift card – Hospital visits add up—this is thoughtful and very useful.
  • Handwritten note or photo gift – Something personal reminding them they’re supported and not alone.

10 things to say to someone who has cancer

  • “I’m here for you—no need to reply.” Takes the pressure off but keeps the door always open.
  • “Would you like to talk about it, or talk about anything but it?” Lets them steer the convo and finally feel in control.
  • “What can I take off your plate—today or anytime? I’m in.” Gives them reassurance and instant support without guilt.
  • “Can I drop off a meal/ride you to an appointment/walk your dog?” Offer something specific and follow through.
  • “I don’t know what to say, but I care about you a lot.” An honest and comforting response can go a long way. Even if you are deep down unsure of how to deal with something so heavy, a message is better than no message.
  • “What’s the best way to check in—text, call, memes?” Match their energy/medium and stay consistent with checking in.
  • “I’m on standby for you—whenever you need me, whatever for.” Gives them comfort and guaranteed support.
  • “I can sit with you quietly, keep you company, or watch something—whatever feels good.” Social support without small talk; sometimes it's nice to not think about cancer at all.
  • “Thinking of you and wishing you steadier, easier moments today.” Simple, repeated check-ins matter.
  • “I’m with you for the long haul.” Reassures them you won’t disappear after week one.

10 things to include in a care package

  • Fragrance-free lip balm & lotion – Hospitals are dry, making these very practical (unscented is safest.)
  • Cozy socks or beanie – Warmth always provides comfort in chilly infusions or other appointments.
  • Long phone charger (6–10 ft) or power bank – Outlets are never where you need them.
  • Easy snacks – Plain crackers, ginger candies, granola bars (check diet restrictions first).
  •  Hydration helpers – Reusable water bottle, electrolyte packets, or herbal/ginger tea.
  • Small  entertainment – Puzzle/word-search book, adult coloring book + pencils, or a small game.
  • Headphones/earbuds – Help blocking hospital noise or finding an escape during stressful moments.
  • Notebook & a good pen – For questions, meds, symptoms, or journaling.
  • Comfort items – Small blanket, plushie, stress ball, or fidget—soothing for all ages.
  • Useful gift cards – Meals (DoorDash/Uber Eats), coffee, gas/parking, or streaming.

Recent Advancements Highlights

A powerful targeted therapy called Larotrectinib shrank a 44 cm tumor in a 3-month-old baby to nearly nothing within five weeks—with no side effects. A striking example of precision medicine at work.

Trials in England revealed that whole genome sequencing can deliver faster, more accurate cancer diagnosis and treatment plans for children—sometimes in just 10 days—while also identifying inherited risk factors for families.

CAR T-cell therapy—an advanced immune-based cancer treatment—has helped children beat leukemia. A biotech startup is now automating its production to make this life-saving therapy more affordable and widely available.

More kids are surviving cancer than ever—but many face long-term effects like fertility issues, heart and organ damage, or emotional challenges. New research emphasizes the importance of survivorship care plans, like the “Passport for Care,” to help children thrive.

Researchers from Emory University and QIMR Berghofer have developed a promising drug called CT‑179 that targets stubborn tumor cells in medulloblastoma—a common and aggressive pediatric brain cancer. In early mouse models, CT‑179 not only reaches and kills those dangerous cells but also boosts the power of radiation treatment, offering a potentially more effective and less toxic therapy option.

Researchers have developed a promising "universal" mRNA cancer vaccine that primes the immune system to fight multiple cancer types—including pediatric brain cancers and bone tumors—without the delay of personalized manufacturing. It’s now entering human trials for high-grade pediatric glioma and osteosarcoma, with hopes of transforming how childhood cancers are treated.

Interviews With Professionals

Joelle Straehla

Joelle Straehla is a pediatric oncologist at Dana-Farber/Boston Children's Cancer and Blood Disorders Center, an Instructor of Pediatrics at Harvard Medical School, and a Charles W. (1955) and Jennifer C. Johnson Clinical Investigator at MIT's Koch Institute. She received her MD from Northwestern University in 2013, and in 2016 completed a residency in pediatrics at the University of Washington. In 2017, during her fellowship in pediatric hematology/oncology at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, Straehla joined Paula Hammond's lab at the Koch Institute as a postdoctoral fellow, focusing her research on nanotechnology-based drug delivery platforms. She is board certified in general pediatrics and pediatric hematology/oncology, and her clinical practice is focused on the care of children with tumors of the brain and spinal cord.

Can you explain your area of research and how it has promise to advance pediatric cancer treatments?

My research focuses on drug delivery, or how therapies are getting to the cancer cells. One of the main goals of my lab is to understand how drug carriers can improve drug delivery and potentially lead to more effective therapies with less side effects. This is a big goal and will take a large team effort to achieve.

What advice would you give to parents of children recently diagnosed with cancer?  

Each child and family are unique, and your oncology team wants to provide the best care possible by including caregivers as a key member of the team. Caregivers are the experts when it comes to their children – I would encourage families and caregivers to be honest with their providers when they have questions, need more information, or want to hear information in a different way.

What advice would you give to children diagnosed with cancer?

This is going to be highly dependent on the age of the child, but I think it’s important for children to be honest about their fears and worries with their caregivers and their treatment team. This builds trust in both directions, and giving a voice to our worries can be transformative – there is an entire field of psychosocial oncology that has brought evidence-based methods to improve quality of life for cancer patients of all ages.

What is the most impactful (hopeful) experience you’ve had with a patient?

There are many that come to mind – interacting with patients and families is the best part of my job. One experience that has surprised me is hearing from adolescent patients who are several years out from their treatment that they see their experience as a positive thing – some patients have said that having cancer helps them see the world and people in a more positive light.

What research is being done that gives you the most hope for pediatric cancer patients?

I feel very hopeful because I see scientists wanting to work together to solve problems. This may mean forming a team containing biologists, chemists, engineers, and physicians who all have a different perspective but want the same goal –this type of teamwork is not only more effective but also more meaningful for each person involved. I think it will be the way of the future and am excited to champion this research model.

Mary T. Austin

Dr. Mary Austin is an Associate Professor in both the department of Pediatric Surgery at The University of Texas Medical School at Houston and in Surgical Oncology and Pediatrics at The University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center. She completed her surgery residency at Vanderbilt University Medical Center in Nashville, Tennessee. During her residency, Dr. Austin also received a Masters in Public Health from the Vanderbilt University School of Medicine. She completed her Surgical Critical Care and Pediatric Surgery training at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles in July 2010. Dr. Austin is board certified in Surgery, Surgical Critical Care and Pediatric Surgery. She has a special interest in pediatric surgical oncology, surgical critical care including ECMO, and clinical research. Her research focus is clinical outcomes research in the field of pediatric surgical oncology. She is also interested in identifying geographic and socioeconomics barriers to care for pediatric cancer patients and working to dissolve these barriers.

Can you explain your area of specialty within pediatric oncology?

I’m a pediatric surgeon who specializes in the care of children and adolescents with cancer and in particular, solid tumors that occur outside of the brain.

What advice would you give to parents of children recently diagnosed with cancer?  

My best advice is to encourage parents to include their child in discussion and decision-making related to their care. Even young children learn quickly and they really understand a lot more than we often give them credit for understanding.  I find that children with parents that really engage them in the care from an early stage are better able to cope and often even thrive as they go through their treatment often including major surgery.

What advice would you give to children diagnosed with cancer?

I advise that they try to keep things as normal as possible in their life outside of the cancer treatment.  I encourage them and their parents to remain engaged in activities that they enjoy and often will recommend that we schedule procedures around important life events so that they don’t feel like they are always missing out on important events due to their cancer diagnosis.

What is the most impactful (hopeful) experience you’ve had with a patient?

This is a really difficult question to answer as I’ve had many very impactful experiences with my patients.  I genuinely believe that there is no greater privilege or trust bestowed on someone than to allow that person to operate on one’s child.  Throughout my career, there have been many ups and downs but the special bond that I form with many of my patients and their parents is incredibly impactful for me.

What research is being done that gives you the most hope for pediatric cancer patients?

The approach of using the body’s own immune system (i.e. cellular therapies) to fight cancer instead of cytotoxic drugs has been a total game changer for so many patients.

Brandon D. Brown

Assistant Professor, Division of Pediatrics, The University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center, Houston, TX

Can you explain your area of specialty within pediatric oncology?

I treat children and young adults with solid tumor cancers with a particular focus in patients with Neuroblastoma and Retinoblastoma.

What advice would you give to parents of children recently diagnosed with cancer?  

I encourage siblings and parents to leave as much space for hope and optimism as they can in the beginning and to remember that we are here as a resource to help navigate this challenge with them.

What advice would you give to children diagnosed with cancer?

Treatment can be extraordinarily challenging. I try to remind my patients often to not be ashamed or scared to ask for help from family, friends, our Team or a counselor. What they are having to face is very not normal, but how it makes them feel is extremely normal. A strong, positive system of support with family & friends will be immeasurably important.

What is the most impactful (hopeful) experience you’ve had with a patient?

I am always amazed at the strength and courage our patients fight with every day even in the most challenging times.

What research is being done that gives you the most hope for pediatric cancer patients?

The sheer volume of research towards the eradication of cancer is remarkable and we are making progress at a faster rate than ever before.

David McCall

Department of Pediatrics, Division of Pediatrics

Can you explain your area of specialty within pediatric oncology?

I work in hematological malignancies. This includes leukemia and lymphoma but also entities such as HLH, LCH, Castleman disease which result from an overactive immune system aspect.  

What advice would you give to parents of children recently diagnosed with cancer?  

I would tell them that this is like someone dropping a bomb in their life and that this will be their new normal for the foreseeable future. There will be a loss of control that they have never experienced before. Ask questions often. Take notes. The beginning is incredibly daunting but eventually, you will develop a rhythm. Connect with others with similar diseases and in support groups. And when able, take time to take care of yourself.

What is the most impactful (hopeful) experience you’ve had with a patient?

I would say being a part of this recent trial where a new oral medication that targets DNA changes in leukemia is curing kids that have seen every chemo for their disease. One of our earlier patients on the trial had a response and when the family saw his marrow producing new neutrophils, where there hasn’t been in months, was something they’d never imagine. Then came his remission. My son was the same age and we connected on a lot of things. I grew close to them.  They had planned his funeral prior to the trial because that is how sick he was. Was crazy. Ultimately it was short lived as he passed away from infection. I really connected with that family though and the ups/downs. It made me press in and connect with families even if the outcome is bleak. Because, you can still make a difference.

What research is being done that gives you the most hope for pediatric cancer patients?

Single cell analysis. Before, cells were grouped together and analyzed but now we can tease out cells and really analyze pathways and proteins and see what makes these cells work, get resistant to chemo, and what can lead to their death and pave the way for more targeted medications.

Fiorela N Hernandez Tejada

Assistant Professor, Department of Pediatrics Patient Care, Division of Pediatrics, The University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center, Houston, TX

Can you explain your area of specialty within pediatric oncology?

I see patients with solid tumors and do research on immunotherapy for solid tumors.

What advice would you give to parents of children recently diagnosed with cancer?  

Always be honest with your kid and don’t hide anything. They can always figure out things even if you don’t tell them.

What advice would you give to children diagnosed with cancer?

Be open with your parents about what you feel or what you want. Don’t ever listen to bullies, they don’t know how brave, strong, and extraordinary you are, and they never will. Ask all the questions to your parents or your doctors and remember we are here for you.

What is the most impactful (hopeful) experience you’ve had with a patient?

There is not one only impactful thing. Each patient has impacted my life in different ways and they all have taught me something.

What research is being done that gives you the most hope for pediatric cancer patients?

Immunotherapy overall has made great improvements in the pediatric oncology field.